{"id":34261,"date":"2013-07-28T21:48:04","date_gmt":"2013-07-28T21:48:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alternativejonestown.com\/?page_id=34261"},"modified":"2018-07-25T07:00:17","modified_gmt":"2018-07-25T14:00:17","slug":"gardfrey2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/?page_id=34261","title":{"rendered":"Brenda Carol Cobb: My &ldquo;BFF&rdquo;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/05-04-cobb.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-36702 alignleft\" alt=\"05-04-cobb\" src=\"http:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/05-04-cobb-300x294.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"294\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/05-04-cobb-300x294.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/05-04-cobb.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I write this on September 4, 2012, the birthday of my \u201cBest Friend Forever.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brenda Carol Cobb and I were inseparable. From Indianapolis to California to Jonestown, we were always together. Those who knew us could see we were \u201ctwo peas in a pod,\u201d \u201cthick as thieves,\u201d and whatever other pairing you could use to describe the friendship we shared. To me she was a \u201cBFF\u201d before the phrase became part of American slang.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrecisely Indubitably\u201d; \u201cIndubitably Precisely\u201d! Those who knew Brenda knew that was her catch phrase of choice.<\/p>\n<p>I miss your beautiful smile, Brenda, that could light up any room. I miss the talks we shared about our future. I miss our bad days as well as our good days. I am saddened you were cheated out of experiencing the things you wanted to do.<\/p>\n<p>I thank you for your spirit you gave me that I carry with me daily. I thank you for the opportunity to have known such a beautiful person.<\/p>\n<p>I miss you so much my friend, my sister. Never will I ever experience a friendship as special and strong as ours. I Love You Forever, my \u201cBFF,\u201d my Sister.<\/p>\n<p><em>(Dawn Gardfrey is a regular contributor to <\/em>the jonestown report<em>. Her other articles in this edition are <\/em>Surviving November: My Life After Jonestown <em>Finds New Passion and <a href=\"http:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/?page_id=34262\">New Branches on the Family Tree<\/a>. Her previous writings for this site are collected <a href=\"http:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/?page_id=17035\">here<\/a>. <\/em><em>She can be reached at <a href=\"mailto:dawn.gardfrey@gmail.com\">dawn.gardfrey@gmail.com<\/a><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">.<\/span>)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I write this on September 4, 2012, the birthday of my \u201cBest Friend Forever.\u201d Brenda Carol Cobb and I were inseparable. From Indianapolis to California to Jonestown, we were always together. Those who knew us could see we were \u201ctwo peas in a pod,\u201d \u201cthick as thieves,\u201d and whatever other pairing you could use to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"parent":34370,"menu_order":4,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-34261","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/34261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=34261"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/34261\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":80728,"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/34261\/revisions\/80728"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/34370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jonestown.sdsu.edu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=34261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}